What is love?

Seeing the title, you may feel strange. That is a obvious question, and why did you ask. actually, it's not so. definition of love in dictionary is "a strong feeling of affection". In narrow sense, love is referred in particular to the emotion between men and women. When you walk around the street, you can see many couples are hanging out. Love, how marvelous it is! Good things always cannot continue for a long time. Many lovers break up, divorce, or abandon their mates. That is sorrowful.

After a breath, I recalled the days of my high school life to me. I don't ever have my own lover. I fell love with a girl who was my classmate, but she rejected me absolutely. I was so sad that even I could not fall asleep in the night and I could not pay my whole attention to studying. I thought that I would love her in my life and would not give up her until she accept. However, actualities always far away from the expectations. After one year, I didn't keep that mind anymore. I rid the love minds away. Even I thought I was stupid at that time. That was true, I didn't love her forever in which I ever wanted. Shortly soon, I felt painful. "I can't love a person in perpetuity, can I?" I asked myself. Suddenly, I thought could it be said that love just was temporary? No, it cannot be. However, so many cased proved that despite our wishes. Why, why are the lovers not tough, why do they grow boring with each other, Why?

I attempted to get answer. I might get it, might not. Maybe the reason is humans' weakness. We cannot keep the resolution for a very long time. People are various and emotional. On the other hand, many people say that they don't care about appearances, but the first important factor is appearances. I know it is contradiction, but it is true. That's why many lovers break up so quickly, that's why many romantic stories just happen no end. At the beginning, they make the mistakes that they just love each other, however they don't know each other. Humans are a sort like hedgehogs, approaching too close just would hurt each other. At the beginning, they should know that love is not equal marriage, and appearances are not equal personalities.

Although we are various, we cannot live alone. We need our partners to share our love, happiness, sorrow even life. So many cases have shown that if we try, we can get along with our partners very well until we die.

I wish I would meet a girl who is my style, and she would be soft, graceful, and she might be a good wife. More importantly, she would love me like I love her. I think I would ask her to be my wife. If she agrees, I am going to kiss my bride's cheeks and tell her:"I will do my best to love you, to take care of you, to protect you. If I can."

(After the rain, I saw the sun, I smelled the fresh air. Love may disappoint us. But we should hold the dream, we would see the sun finally.)